Does he hate me, I'm not a girl who's world is focused around boys?

Ok, so I got that you know how to respect people and you respect him but think of it this way. Part of respecting someone is getting respect from them in return. Cussing you and your mother out is not in any form of respect at all. And even if it was a simple mistake of having his anger get out of hand, what kind of person gets angry from you tapping their shoulder? In this case I wouldn't dump him only because he is disrespectful, but I would dump him because if he's showing signs of anger this early in the relationship, just imagine later on down the road. This guy sounds like a psycho girl.